Some people say that praising a kid pretty or clever is not appropriate.
This will only mislead people to strive for such superficial recognition.
I study hard, in order to make my parents feel proud that they have a smart and well-behaved child.
I dress up and exercise to stay fit, in order to make someone special look at me.
If people praise the kid's good manners and beautiful smile for instead,
could the values of teenagers become different ?
The capitalism always blames the failure to personal reason, like laziness or foolish.
In fact, they just made some decisions which seemed not so clever or totally wrong.
And that has made all the difference.
Nobody knows how it leads with "the road not taken".
When your leg is hurt ,couldn't go anywhere, but you have to work for living.
When you have an arm fracture, couldn't do anything , but you have to eat something.
When your heart is broken ,you thought it's the end of the world, but the sun is still shining out there.
Nobody knows exactly, what is the cost for "the road not taken".
In the past, the values which is not so perfect, with a little bit distortion,
But it guided you to make one choice and another.
When you dare not to love, think of this:
It's more important to figure out how to clean up the mess than to worry about being hurt or lost.
Life is not always a yes/no question.
Shall we carry on or just let go? Sometimes we have to discard ,and sometimes we donate.
We shouldn't travel with a backpack that is too heavy to carry.
And happiness exists not only when seeing the aurora.
To become the one you prefer,you do not have to be a peerless beauty ,talented artist ,a super rich, or even a star.
But you have to dialogue with your soul honestly and face the annoying memories and emotions.
When finding a problem, stop making a reason for yourself ,or explaining to someone else,
First of all, is to admit the mistake, and then try to get back to the right path ,
If you still have time, think about how to make it better.
People always told you to love yourself,
But no one can give you the guiding principles of universality ,
They couldn't teach us how to love ourselves,
You have to find it out by yourself.
No matter how the inspiring books say, it is only experiences of others, talking about the wonderful theory.
We have to face this world without Standard-Operation-System.
We have to know that people are multifaceted ,
and stop putting on a single label, and judging each other by the price of salary.
Focus on how you think about yourself, not the expectation of your parents and others.
Taking good care of their feelings means much more than following their all advices,
They just want you to be happy.
We need the ability and power to make ourselves happy,
then we can defend for other people's happiness.
Nobody can tell you how to make it ,
They are not too mean to share,
In stead everyone should do something different,
There is always a place for you.
There is always something and someone special waiting for you.
There is always a dream waiting to be fulfilled, just for you.
And you have to be ready ASAP ,
Without a healthy body, you couldn't get anywhere,
Without the courage to move on and change,
Even one hundred Princes Charming can not save you from the ivory tower .